How Positive Thinking Changed My Life!

              

Growing up I was around nothing but negative people.

No matter how hard I tried I could not see the positive that " happy " people seemed to see int he world. 

As an adult I was known to not be a very nice person. I do not have a filter on my mouth for the most part. However that was not something that came to be until after my former in laws came into my life. Lord knows they changed me , for the better or at least that's how I like to see it. 

I was a doormat growing up and now well now I am me!

I have lived through so much negative things in my life. I never knew what being positive would change. 

Until 2013 when my husband left for school and I was left alone for most of the day. I decided to start watching The Real House Wives Of Atlanta. I had never seen this show before and hey don't judge I was bored out of my mind. 

I never thought that it would change my life the way it did. 

I heard the " Ask Believe Receive " method that Kim Zolciak ( now  Kim Zolciak Biermann ) talked about. 

It brought me to where I am now. Hearing her speak about everything she believes in. 

( Though I do not agree with some of her past actions. I will not go down the rabbit whole so don't post crazy negative things on my blog or facebook page about her ) 

Lead to my researching how the Power Of Positive Thinking can change your life. 

At that point I was not ready to truly take hold of the power of positive thinking as I was facing a custody battle and so much drama. 

That did not stop me from reading everything, I could find online about those whose lives have changed. From the positive thinking theory. People from all walks of life , all over the world have changed their lives. It wasn't until  half way through a custody battle. 

I sat down one day while I was trying to figure out what I could do. I was sitting on my living room floor when it hit me. 

I needed to change my life, for myself , for my husband and for my kids. 

I knew that moment what I needed to do. 

I got online and again started my search of everything positive thinking related.

I started with the first step that everyone has to take. 

I decided that I would never again be a negative person.

I would not allow it to mess up my life. 

I was going to take control of my life, and that all starts with keeping my positive thinking. 

From there the next step was to clear out my life. 
Removing all of the negative people that I had filled my life with and once I did. Things not only changed some but my whole life changed. I won my custody battle, I was a happier person. I am a better mom, and I found my happy positive friends. Who honestly made life so much better. I was so unhappy about not having friends was honestly a huge issue. 
Not only does my positive attitude make my life better but I have seen it change my friends. Helping them learn the power of positive thinking. 

There are so many books, blogs, videos on the power of positive thinking. I can't even list them all so I will just say google!! 

Your mind set matter each and every day. If you wake up with a positive mind set then positive things will happen.
With a negative mind set you will only bring negative things into your life. It is a process getting up every day and forcing your self to have a positive mind set but it is so worth it. 

Nothing worth having is ever easy but with a simple change to your life. You would be amazed at the things that will happen. 

So as for me .... I will keep things positive and believe that good thing will happen as they have been so far.